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The Real Meaning of the Word “Couture”…

The Real Meaning of the Word “Couture”…

OOPS!  I did it again! 🙁

  
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Yes these 2 emoticons just about capture exactly how I feel right now! 🙁  Pretty embarrassing that it’s been exactly a month since I last updated my blog.  I really need to start fining myself.
Has it been really hectic for me?!  Well… sort of… but clearly that is not an excuse right?!  I thought so too.  My bad!  I wish I could say it will not happen again but honestly, I am not so sure.  All I can offer is my apologies…and hope you all give me time to sort myself out.  It will be busy in the next few weeks.

Great!  That said!  Moving on to today’s topic…

So it is pretty common for fashion companies here (and I am sure in many parts of the world) to include the word “couture” in their brand names.  Of course the word “couture” sounds so posh, it actually took me ages to figure out the real pronunciation.  

Yes we do know it is a French word but I often wonder if many people who use the word in their brand names actually know the meaning or have the right to use the word.  

NOW please note that the purpose of this post is not to call anyone ignorant… neither is it to get anyone to change their already registered business names.  It is simply for knowledge purposes.  I know someone once asked me if she needed to change her business name after our discussion and her research and I told her it was not necessary since a business name is different from a brand/trade name.  I’m sure lawyers can educate us more on this.

But anywayz… back to the topic… What does couture actually mean?!


Givenchy Fall 2011 Couture
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“Haute Couture consists of secrets whispered from generation to generation … If, in ready-to-wear, a garment is manufactured according to standard sizes, the haute couture garment adapts to any imperfection in order to eliminate it.”

– Yves Saint Laurent 
(from http://www.dressful.com/583/what-is-the-definition-of-haute-couture)
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I had written this article several times in my head but finally got the nudge I needed to post this when sometime last week, I clicked on my daily digest from the Business of Fashion (BOF) and read, with a huge grin on my face, about a topic I had been meaning to write on for a long time.  It was just what I needed to back up my position on the term “couture“, which had formed the basis for many debates in the past between other designers, students and I.

The first paragraph read:

“Haute couture, completely bespoke, handmade garments created with the highest-quality fabrics, sits at the pinnacle of luxury fashion craftsmanship and exclusivity. In fact, the very term ‘haute couture’ is protected by law in France. And rules dictated by the Parisian Chamber of Commerce and Industry require members of the haute couture club to adhere to very strict guidelines pertaining to their runway shows, ateliers and artisans, to name but a few.”  

[Read the rest of the article at  http://www.businessoffashion.com/2013/04/fashion-means-business-haute-couture.html?utm_source=Subscribers&utm_campaign=9c22c9d904-&utm_medium=email]

Of course, throughout my studies, I always knew that couture was not a word “for the faint-hearted” designer.  I knew design houses which had the right to describe their work as couture had to meet at least, the following criteria:

1.   Each garment they produced had to be made specifically for one client; 
2.  Each extremely detailed garment was produced after pain-staking work using intricate hand-executed techniques which utilized lots of man-hours and/or personnel; 
3.  The design house had to belong to a certain Association in Paris with stringent rules for its members; and there are only a handful in the world;
4.  The finished garments were very expensive… oh naturally… it had to be when you think about the materials and effort that went into creating the clothes; and
5.  The term “high fashion” was used in place of the term “couture” for designers whose work “sort of” fell into the category but did not meet the criteria.

So I took a quick trip on Google to see if I could find articles that confirmed my position and here is what I found on Wikipedia:

“French for “high sewing” or “high dressmaking” or “high fashion” refers to the creation of exclusive custom-fitted clothing.”

“Haute couture is made to order for a specific customer…”   (I believe this tallies with my  first point);

“… and it is usually made from high-quality, expensive fabric and sewn with extreme attention to detail and finished by the most experienced and capable seamstresses,…” (also tallies with my points 2 and 4);

“…often using time consuming, hand-executed techniques” – Touché!  I believe this is Point 2.

“In Modern France, haute couture is a protected name that can be used only by firms that meet certain well-defined standards…” established by the “chambre syndicale de la haute couture”.  (Clearly my point 3)

Of course many have argued that the definition has been watered down to mean “the business of designing, making and selling highly fashionable, usually custom-made clothing for women”.  I got that from thefreedictionary.com.  

But truth is, the term “highly fashionable” or high fashion cannot be separated from couture.  The real question here is how many of us create high fashion clothing?  Yes I know, high fashion is a relative term, but an easier question to answer is how many belong to that Association in Paris?   So I do not dub the whole article, you can read the criteria here and the rest of the article here:  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haute_couture

Ah wait… there is more… I love conducting research!  😀

http://mag.weddingcentral.com.au/bridal/couture.htm went on to state that:

“The differences between a couturier and a dressmaker are many… a dressmaker will follow a commercial pattern and use basic sewing skills to make a dress according to a given design specified by the customer, with one or two fittings. 

A couturier, however, will design a gown exclusively for you, select and source exclusive specialized fabrics, construct a pattern from your measurements, and fit the first version of this pattern on you in calico (this is called a toile). Once the toile has been altered to fit you exactly, the couturier will then cut the fabric into the perfected pattern and gradually complete the gown through a number of specific fittings, usually around four or five. Hand beading, embroidery, hand painting and other unique finishing touches are applied once the gown is finished.”

So now, after seeing all this, what says you?!  I can safely tell you that many of us around here do not go through half of the processes stated, well at least I know many do not use patterns, create toiles or have that many fittings.  Moreover, many who call themselves couture houses neither use the materials or techniques nor have the skills or manpower to operate as couture houses.  I doubt our african prints are that expensive… at least I am yet to find one that is soooo expensive.  And clearly most do not belong to that association in Paris.

The same article also stated that:

“Generally, the timeframe for a couture gown is six to eight months, although of course there are some exceptions depending on the size of the business and how busy that particular couturier is. Booking in advance is always a good idea, as couturiers can get booked out many months ahead…”

Nah… not our “couture houses” here.  They churn out clothes in like 5 days.. or even less.  And this is not me mocking anyone…. no far from it.    I wonder if many have seen the production of wedding gowns made from lace.  

I had the privilege of visiting a bridal wear house once and my goodness!  The  detail in their work was overwhelming!  You know how we just cut through lace patterns?  Nope they definitely do not do that.  The seamstresses had to “mould” the lace over the corset by cutting “around” the flowers and stitching them back together by hand.  No wonder those gowns are that expensive.  Like seriously!  Who has that patience?!  

I did a bit of that in school as well… lace moulding on a corset that is.  My goodness!  Remember that model I used for my FEC 1 flyer?  That’s the corset she was wearing.  I bet you cannot tell that that much work went into it.  I must have pricked myself enough times from the hand-stitching and the beading.  Impatient me used large stitches to stitch the lace back together and my teacher tried to get me to redo it but there was no way I was going to redo that work!  Here’s a close up of that corset. 


Ok granted, my work was pretty errr… (…) fill in the gap… but can you see the handstitching?  Nah… didn’t think so.  Neither can I!  But I did the work, corset looked great  and I can tell you for free that if I had to redo it for someone else, I would charge an arm, a leg and 2 ribs!  Ok… well maybe just the arm and 1 rib seeing the fabric and the lace wasn’t that expensive… 

But my point is, couture work is no joke and you definitely cannot charge N8k or even N10k for it.  I would place a couture designer in the same boat as a tailor.  Both are Masters at their game and many of us are farrrrrr from it.  Even fully established designers in other areas do not use the term to describe their work much less we over here that have sooo much to learn.  So please let us use the proper terms when describing what we do.  

Ok so what if you have already adopted the name “couture” as part of your brand?  Well I would say you have 3 options:  

1.  Simply drop the term “couture”; 
2.  Replace it with something else like “high fashion”; or
3. Just continue with the name… after all, in this environment and others for that matter, many do not give a hoot!

And if you are in the process of thinking of a brand name…. well at least now you know what not to include.  

NOTE that I am referring to your “brand name” not your business name.  For those who have already registered the name, this does not prevent you from having another brand name.  Same way Vee Networks then was trading as V-Mobile.  V-Mobile was the brand name which everyone knew the company as while Vee Networks was the registered company name.  

Great!  I think I am done!  You all have a great week ahead and here’s me wishing you a Happy New Month in advance!  😀

Cheers!
Is it REALLY About the Fabric or What You Can Do WITH the Fabric?!

Is it REALLY About the Fabric or What You Can Do WITH the Fabric?!

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ABSOLUTELY stunning work right?!  Yes I thought so too.  
 
I was browsing the Fedisa Facebook page (yes that’s the design school I graduated from) sometime last year when I stumbled upon this absolutely fabulous draping exercise created by a 1st year student, entirely out of calico!  For those who have no idea what calico is, it’s commonly called Teru in the local market.  YES!  This dress was draped from mere “teru”… what many of my students think is crap material which they can never wear.  I told them it was because they hadn’t seen good work done in calico.  
 
So this post really is for my students, past and present.  I am hoping they read this article, which will hopefully change their mindsets and also prove what I say…. that “it’s never about the fabric but what you can do with the fabric”!
 

I have spoken to many designers who tell me that they get their inspiration from fabrics.  Now I do not doubt that this is true.  But my question is, for how long can you continue to rely on the fabric as a source of inspiration for your designs…even if there are so many fabrics out there to work with.  Or perhaps maybe I have this mindset because I was trained to first develop my concept and then find suitable fabrics to bring the designs to life.  I even recall on one or two occasions, “creating” my own fabric when I couldn’t find fabrics suitable for the concept I had in mind.  I even used spider webbing once to glue chiffon to a stiffer fabric to get the weight I wanted.  

 

I also recall a project in my first year where we had to develop our own 3-meter long 3D fabric.  Took me forever to sew the manually pleated ribbons in 2 colours onto the taffeta, and this was after I had sewn on the lace fabric.  It was part of what made learning more challenging and interesting…. and part of what never bothered me if I went to the fabric store and could not find what I wanted to use.  I’d simply create mine.   

 
But now I find that it appears some of us rely too much on the ankara fabric with its fabulous print to speak for our work rather than the other way round.  And this is said with NO PREJUDICE WHATSOEVER to any designer in particular.  For me, what is more difficult is trying to convert the plainest least desirable fabric into a well sought after product!
 
NOW do not get me wrong, I am not condemning ankara or any of our local fabrics.  Yes I may not do much work with ankara now because the busy prints completely confuse me… after all I went to a school where it was more about manipulating fabrics or its refabrication; clearly evident from the picture above.  But this does not mean I will never work with the fabric.  My point is why do people choose to stick with just ankara when there are so many other fabrics to work with.  
 
I remember a seminar I attended recently.  The Director of the Bank complained that her problem with designers here is that yes they do great work, but they all work with the same materials.  She mentioned that she went for a design exhibition and there were fab accessories on display but none really stood out from the lot long enough to leave a lasting impression on her.  Why?!  They were all done with ankara.  Simply put in my own words, “you seen one, you’ve seen them all”.  
 
I even saw a picture of an ankara tie back at a wedding and I was like “oh come on!”  Like seriously?!  Surely we can work with other fabrics?!  I know for a fact that a designer like Ituen Basi, well known for her use of Ankara has also worked with aso-oke and lace and they have all been a hit!  We have the George fabric which I used to make a corset once and so many others so really why restrict yourself to one type of fabric.
 
Personally, I believe a designer’s work should begin from the development of the concept and not from the fabric.  The sketches and designs should determine the fabrics you use and not the other way round.  Even textile companies like Da Viva and Vlisco work with collections much less we designers that use their fabrics for our work.  Yes you may get inspired by fabrics from time to time and create something great, which is fabulous, but truth is sometimes, the fabrics may restrict you to certain designs especially if you work with prints.  After all, you do not want to give someone a headache with a very busy design on a very busy print fabric.  
 
Ok just picture this dress made with ankara.  Would you have noticed a lot of the detail like the pleated bodice and the gathered asymmetrical lowered waistline?!  First, I think the pleats would be lost in the busy print, you probably would not have seen the gathers in the skirt and the attachments on the shoulder and the hip areas would have been an overkill – too much going on.  For me, sometimes the “bare chest – less legs” principle holds when working with certain types of fabrics.  Simply put, what would you like to draw attention to?  The design detail or the fabric?  Too much of both would simply be too much!    
 
So people, please take note.  Calico is not as bad as you think.  Besides, believe it or not, it actually is more expensive than some of the fabrics in the market.  
And to everyone out there, have a fabulous week!  Say a prayer for me for tomorrow and wish me a happy birthday in advance! ;-D
 
MWAH!
ARGH!  The Dangers of that THING called Procrastination!

ARGH! The Dangers of that THING called Procrastination!

 

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The first half of the first month of the New Year is already gone and it has only just dawned on me that no matter how long I put something off for or make excuses for my inability to do it, a task will neither go away nor will time wait for me to sort myself out!   

 
I logged on to update my blog when I got completely lost in thought.  I needed to understand how exactly 14 days went past without me updating my blog nor ticking off my to-do list.  Goodness I haven’t even sent the mails I planned to send out though I have drafted it a million times in my head.  Even as I write this, I wonder why I am writing on procrastination when my major intention was to talk about my Training Calendar for the year!  And worse!  I decided to conduct research on the topic when I stumbled on this cartoon and realized just how spot on it was!
 
http://davewalkercartoons.com/procrastination/

 

 
I know many of us suffer from this but cannot seem to do anything about it.  I guess a lot of it has to do with being in denial or worse, trying to justify why exactly we haven’t met our deadlines or reached our goals!   I know for a fact that one of the reasons I procrastinate is because when I start to do things early enough, I end up wasting 80% of the time going around in circles till I have no time left.  I realized that I did my best work when I was under pressure and felt justified leaving things till the last minute… and then it became my valid excuse for not doing things at the right time.  For me, as long as I delivered, that’s all that mattered!  But surely that cannot be healthy or sustainable in the long run!
 
In fact, taking it a bit further, I always wondered why we were always in a hurry in Lagos.  People drive like maniacs, bikemen are daredevils, even pedestrians are something else.    How else can we explain why people cannot take turns when navigating a narrow lane and end up wasting 30 minutes of their time when they could have saved 29.5 – a major reason for the bad traffic situation in Lagos!   Simply because the average individual around here is constantly running late for one appointment or the other so rather than allow the next man in, 2 seemingly “smart people” cross each other off or hit themselves and end up wasting the whole day and getting everyone else late for work! Why?  Because they left home too late!  Why?  This same procrastination!  Of course because everyone else is late for work, each of them refuses to give way and the never-ending cycle just continues…. till of course, someone begging on the streets sees an opportunity to make money or be in control and comes in to intervene and direct traffic!  Like seriously!    
 
So my question is… if we know we procrastinate and we know it is counter-productive, then why do we do it?!  Or better still, why can we not do anything about it?  Could it be because we take things for granted?!  I know someone who confessed to me that he lost a multi-million naira contract simply because he could not drag himself to send an e-mail.  He sat for hours on his couch staring at the laptop screen but could not bring himself to send that e-mail.  He concluded that he had a bad case of ADHD – Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (which by the way I thought was bull!  Clearly he has not really seen someone with ADHD and neither have I to be honest.  But from my research, he may exhibit some traits  – we all do – but I don’t think his case is as severe as that.  
 
I also recall last year a designer on my contact list who was completely hysterical when she felt everything was falling apart, she was forgetting things a lot, getting everywhere late, couldn’t get things done on time and wanted to seek medical attention.  She only seemed to calm down when I told her she was not the only one it was happening to and she should read up on an article I stumbled upon a while back.  Truth is… I was worried she would contact a doctor who was not versed enough in this area and didn’t want her causing herself more harm than good till she could make sense of it all.
 
Now many of us may not admit it but chronic procrastination is actually a psychological problem.  Now we’re not saying you’re going crazy or something.   But from the following extracts on http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Procrastination, surely you are better off admitting you have a problem so you can find workable solutions to it:
 
“While it is regarded as normal for people to procrastinate to some degree, it becomes a problem when it impedes normal functioning. Chronic procrastination may be a sign of an underlying psychological disorder…  For some people, procrastination can be persistent and tremendously disruptive to everyday life. For these individuals, procrastination may be symptomatic of a psychological disorder such as depression or ADHD.”
“Many individuals who consider themselves “chronic procrastinators” are actually suffering from an underlying mental health problem such as depression or Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD). These individuals often do not understand why they cannot “get it together”, and can become resigned to a life of struggle, frustration, and underachievement. There is, unfortunately, widespread ignorance about this constituent to procrastination, even amongst mental health professionals, some of whom see procrastination as simply a “bad habit”. 

Another interesting point on Wikipedia was how people responded or coped with procrastination:

“Individual coping responses to procrastination are often emotional or avoidant oriented rather than task or problem-solving oriented. Emotion oriented coping is designed to reduce stress (andcognitive dissonance) associated with putting off intended and important personal goals, an option that provides immediate pleasure and is consequently very attractive to impulsive procrastinators.[16][17] There are hundreds of identified emotion oriented strategies, similar to Freudian defense mechanisms, coping styles and self-handicapping. These procrastinators include using the following:
  • Avoidance: Where we avoid the locale or situation where the task takes place (e.g., a graduate student avoiding going to University).
  • Distraction: Where we engage or immerse ourselves in other behaviors or actions to prevent awareness of the task (e.g., intensive videogame playing or Internet surfing)
  • Trivialization: We reframe the intended but procrastinated task as being not that important (e.g., “I’m putting off going to the dentist, but you know what? Teeth aren’t that important.”).
  • Downward counterfactuals: We compare our situation with those even worse (e.g., “Yes, I procrastinated and got a B- in the course, but I didn’t fail like one other student did.”). Upward counterfactual is considering what would have happened if we didn’t procrastinate.
  • Humour: Making a joke of one’s procrastination, that the slapstick or slipshod quality of one’s aspirational goal striving is funny.
  • External attributions: That the cause of procrastination is due to external forces beyond our control (e.g., “I’m procrastinating because the assignment isn’t fair”).
  • Reframing: Pretending that getting an early start on a project is harmful to one’s performance and leaving the work to the last moment will produce better results (e.g., “I’m most creative at 4:00 AM in the morning without sleep.”).
  • Denial: Pretending that procrastinatory behaviour is not actually procrastinating, but a task which is more important than the avoided one.
 
Task or problem-solving oriented coping is rarer for the procrastinator because it is more effective in reducing procrastination. If pursued, it is less likely the procrastinator would remain a procrastinator. It requires actively changing one’s behavior or situation to prevent a reoccurrence of procrastination.”

 

So the outstanding issue is where does one go from here?  Are there competent doctors or counsellors out there who can actually assist with this concern?!  For me, people need to recognize that those who procrastinate a lot need to be helped.  Contrary to what people think, many are not just being lazy!  Ok… maybe some are but not everyone! I know I’m not a lazy person but I seem to get distracted a lot!  Perhaps because I over-multi-task which is obviously more detrimental to achieving each individual goal.

I won’t pretend I know what the answers are but I guess identifying the problem is the first step.  I only got better at my deliverables when I realized it was a serious problem and I made a conscious effort throughout last year, thankfully so… until of course… I went into that “holiday” mode which I am finding myself hard to drag myself out of now… 

I also found the following articles… perhaps they can help solve this problem.  I’m sure there are loads more out there.

–  http://www.smarttutorreferrals.com/articles/being-great-student/procrastination
–  http://lesswrong.com/lw/9wr/my_algorithm_for_beating_procrastination/
 
Here’s hoping this article spurs me into action and complete all the tasks on my to-do list.  Actually, now I’m quite encouraged to work towards all my deadlines… oh… and start my exercise and healthy eating regime!  Guess it’s never to late to turn over a new leaf and get your act together!

Here’s wishing me and everyone out there a lot of luck!  

Cheers!

Much Ado About “Dressing”…

Help Take this Quick Survey…
Yes… a part of fashion I’m not sure I have spoken about since I started this blog.  This part is the “consulting” part in the Martwayne logo.  Not sure if many of you know but part of what we do at Martwayne is teach people how to use fashion as a tool for personal and business success.  Business Image Consulting to be precise.  😉

Of course many of us know that first impressions count.  It can make or mar our careers, businesses or even dates.  So what we do is teach people how to get where they want to get to simply by using their dressing and creating that excellent first impression.  Yup!  Fashion does go a lot further than just sewing.
I have always wondered why people dress the way they do.  Obviously personal preferences have a lot to do with our choices but has anyone wondered what exactly affects our choices?  Whilst many blame the media, others blame low funds.  But I have always been a believer in not spending so much money to look good.  You can look smashing at a fraction of the budget.  
 
One thing I do know is that many of us do not know our dress or underwear sizes (and I’m referring to the ladies here…).  The standard lady in this environment is a “34B” – perhaps because that’s what’s available in the market.  Others who know live in self denial.  They would rather squeeze into clothes 2 sizes down than admit to themselves that they have gained weight.  Now losing weight really is the way forward seeing it is cheaper than changing your whole wardrobe.  BUT in the event whereby you are unable to lose weight for various reasons, you can choose your wardrobe carefully to help accentuate your best features and hide your errr…. “areas of concern”.
 
SO anywayz… why am I saying all this?!  
 
We need you to please help out with a few minutes of your time by completing the short questions asked asked in a survey conducted by my friends at Jobberman.com.
Simply click on the link below and you are good to go.
http://blog.jobberman.com/jobs-in-nigeria/2012/08/how-well-dressed-are-you/

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Many thanks for your time. 
Cheers and have an excellent day!

“How to Make Sure Your Ideas Make Sense” – by Scott Anthony

“Irrationality presents challenges too. It can blind innovators to real problems and to important signals telling them to do something different. Yes, perseverance may be an underappreciated skill, but when paired with passion, it often leads to fanaticism.” 
– Scott Anthony 
(http://blogs.hbr.org/anthony/2012/05/in_praise_of_irrational_innova.htm
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I got the following BB broadcast this morning and thought it would be great to share.  The extracts were taken from an article written by Scott Anthony:
HOW TO MAKE SURE YOUR IDEAS MAKE SENSE
 
Many a great decision has resulted from people taking risks that didn’t make logical sense at the time.  Here are three ways to seek the right amount of reason:
 
1. Find a devil’s advocate:
 
 Look for someone who can poke holes in your thinking and point out when you’re being dangerously irrational.
 
2. Test your hypotheses:  
 
Turn your proclamations into experiments. Use them to check your logic.
 
3. Make resources scarce:
 
An abundance of time, money, or people should accelerate innovation, but it often does the opposite. Set early deadlines, consciously constrain funding, and keep teams lean to pressure – test your idea before you get too far down the road.”
 
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My take on the extract?!  SPOT ON!  
When I read the article, I wished I had written it myself.  These were things I realized later on and decided to apply before, thankfully, things stated making sense… and not a moment too soon either…
 

Every creative person needs an “advocate” rather than someone who will massage their egos and keep telling them what they want to hear or how fabulous their designs or business ideas are.  Someone who will highlight errors and give honest constructive criticism.  NOTE the word “constructive”… not just people who slam your work without giving ideas on the way forward.  Those in my opinion are just a waste of time. 

 
It really takes a strong mature heart for a creative person to receive criticism in good faith.  Why?!  We simply are too passionate about our work.  And there is nothing wrong with that.  But we must always remember that we are designing for a market not ourselves.  I know I would rather surround myself with people who will look critically at my work and give an honest critique now than the all-too-annoying words or “I told you so look” after I have bungled.  
 
On “testing your hypotheses”, I’m sure we all know this already. We spoke about this at FEC 4.  Conduct your research and test the market before delving straight into the deep blue sea.
 
And I LOVE the third one, “make resources scarce”.  Cha-ching!!!  In my case, this wasn’t a planned or conscious effort.  It happened when I had exhausted my funds on things that didn’t matter.  I only started moving forward when I had little funds and staff to work with.  One of the major mistakes I made was operating a business under the misguided impression that the measure of a good company was determined by the size of its workforce!  So I went ahead and just kept employing people  HA!  I only saw the light when the hard times hit.  And you know what?  It was a blessing in disguise.  I got a lot more done when I had little funds and only 2 staff than when I had 12.  Needless to say all my funds went towards salaries for zilch work done.  Lesson learnt!
 
SO…
 
If you’re facing a rough patch in your fashion business, look at it as a blessing in disguise and restructure, incorporating these 3 points somehow into your business model.  You can start by having a board of advisors or a focus group and take it from there.  Also ask people questions like “what don’t you like about this garment or design?” rather than “do you like this item?”.  You will be amazed at the answers you’ll get.  And don’t forget to ask them for suggestions on how to improve your work.  
 
Great!  That’s my take on the extracts.  Amazing what you learn from “sensible” BB broadcasts right?  The power of social media!  Don’t worry I’ll post more sensible ones when I receive them.  
 
Enjoy your week!
 
Cheers!
Lessons from The Book of Proverbs

Lessons from The Book of Proverbs

Yes!  My first project in July!  I may not have updated my blog (and I wish I could do this through my phone…), I have been reading it and jotting down the notable verses.


Now like I said in my previous post, I am not a preacher or a pastor so I am not overly decoding the Book or anything.  That is a personal decision you have to make.  I am merely discussing verses I read that made a lot of sense to me and helped me in dealing with people and at work.  

For example, Proverbs 6: 10-11 states: 

10 “A little sleep, a little slumber, A little folding of the hands to sleep –
11 “So shall your poverty come upon you like a prowler, And your need like an armed man.”

Clearly this needs no major decoding.  So sometimes when I feel lazy to work or procrastinate and I remember these verses, I jump up and get busy!  And of course, you know what happens when you jump up and get busy?  You deliver on your work and that translates into money (or a promotion if you so choose).  And remember that “Spare the rod and spoil the child?”  That is also from Proverbs.  It was amazing to realize that many words of advice I heard from older ones were taken from this.

Perhaps there’s some deeper meaning to the Book.  Errrr… let me rephrase that…  I’m sure there is a deeper meaning.  I stumbled upon some sites during my research which had some pretty hectic interpretations and for a second I thought “hmmnnn… should I really be doing this?!”  It seemed my angle was pretty shallow in comparison to what I had read.  But you know what?!  Since it’s something I always wanted to do, I decided to go ahead!  After all, many older ones speak in proverbs.  Only lately did I realize some of them came from this Book.  They always sounded different in Yoruba.   

So open your mind, sit down, relax and journey with me throughout the month of July as I share with you words of wisdom from the Book of Proverbs with or without my interpretation from the New King James Version.  When my friend and I did this a few months ago, we each had to choose one notable verse and when we both hit the same one, we gave each other a pat on the back.  Almost like the game jinx. Now that I think about it, we should even have exchanged presents.  Like minds eh?!

So anywayz, let the words begin!  Enjoy them!


1 July 2012: 

This had quite a few like 17, 19 & 33 but I had to settle for:

Proverbs 1: 6 – 7

6:  “To understand a proverb and an enigma, The words of the wise and their riddles.
7:  “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, But fools despise wisdom and instruction”

(Where did we ever get “The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom from?!  Which Version did that come from?!)

2 July 2012:

Proverbs 2: 3; 5-6.

3:  “Yes, if you cry out for discernment, And lift up your voice for understanding,”
5:  “Then you will understand the fear of the Lord, And find the knowledge of God”
6:  “For the Lord gives wisdom; From His mouth come knowledge and understanding”

3 July 2012:

Proverbs 3: 5-6

5:  “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding;
6:  “In all Your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths”

I can definitely tell you that things only started making a lot of sense in my business when I cried out for help.  

4 July 2012:

Proverbs 4: 5; 7

5:  “Get wisdom!  Get understanding!  Do not forget, nor turn away from the words of my mouth”
7:  “Wisdom is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom.  And in all your getting, get understanding”.

5 July 2012:

Proverbs 5: 21

“For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He ponders all his paths.”

6 July 2012:

Proverbs 6: 10-11; 16 – 19; 32.  

16 – 19 are warnings on what God hates and 19 is just vereeee deep!  Pretty hectic!  But my fave just has to be 10-11:

10:  “A little sleep, a little slumber, A little folding of the hands to sleep –
11:  “So shall your poverty come on you like a prowler, And your need like an armed man”.

7 July 2012:

Well, this chapter pretty much just discussed an encounter with “The Crafty Harlot”, obviously very symbolic.  But if I had to choose a verse, it would have to be:

Proverbs 7: 4

“Say to wisdom, ‘You’re my sister,’ And call understanding your nearest kin”.

Oh… there was a verse in Proverbs 6 that just kept resonating within me and though it had nothing to do with work or a changed being, I just had to draw your attention to it.

Proverbs 6: 32

“Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding;  He who does so destroys his own soul”

Very powerful right?!  Okay then!  Moving on!

8 July 2012: 

Proverbs 8: 13, 17 & 35

13:  “The fear of the Lord is to hate evil; Pride and arrogance and the evil way
 And the perverse mouth I hate”.

17:  “I love those who love me, And those who diligently seek me will find me”.

35:  “For whoever finds me finds life. And obtains favor from the Lord.”

My interpretation of verse 17?  When you are having serious issues, seek Him and He will lead you to a clear solution to the problem.  

9 July 2012:

Proverbs 9:10

“The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, And the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding”.

Ahhhhhhh…… so THAT was where they got it from!  Ok great!  Now I know!

10 July 2012:

Ok well… this Chapter was just completely profound with LOTS of advice.  Short of dubbing the whole chapter, I struggled to select the notable verses because they all just made so much sense.  BUT I chose:

Proverbs 10:  4, 13, 17, 19, 22 & 26.

4:   “He who has a slack hand becomes poor, But the hands of the diligent makes rich”.

13:  “Wisdom is found on the lips of him who has understanding, But a rod is for the back of him who is devoid of understanding”

17:  “He who keeps instruction is in the way of life, But he who refuses instruction goes astray” 

19:  “In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, But he who restrains his lips is wise”

22:  “The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, And He adds no sorrow with it”

26:  “As vinegar to the teeth and smoke to the eyes, So is the lazy man to those who send him”.

Enough said!  Don’t think I need to say more.

11 July 2012:

First HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my absolutely FAB mum!!!  Wishing her lots of God’s guidance, blessings and FUN today & alwayz… 😀

Great!  SO our proverbs for today:

Proverbs 11: 1, 24 – 26.  

1:  “Dishonest scales are an abomination to the Lord, But a just weight is His delight”.

24 – 26:

24:  “There is one who scatters, yet increases more; And there is one who withholds more than is right, But it leads to poverty.
25:  “The generous soul will be made rich, And he who waters will also be watered himself.”
26:  “The people will curse him who withholds grain, But blessing will be on the head of him who sells it”

12 July 2012:

This one also has a lot of notable verses but I struggled to keep it down to:

Proverbs 12:  1, 8, 11, 14, 18, 24 & 27.

On the subject of hard work & the benefits of heeding correction.

1:  “Whoever loves instruction loves knowledge, But he who hates correction is stupid”.

8:  “Better is the one who is slighted but has a servant, Than he who honours himself but lacks bread.”

11:  “He who tills his land will be satisfied with bread, But he who follows frivolity is devoid of understanding”  

14:  “A man will be satisfied with good by the fruit of his mouth, And the recompense of a man’s hands will be rendered to him”.

24:  “The hand of the diligent will rule, But the lazy man will be put to forced labour”

27:  “The lazy man does not roast what he took in hunting, But diligence is man’s precious possession”.

13 July 2012:

On the importance of guarding your tongue, hard work & correction:

Proverbs 13:  3, 4, 11, 16, 18, 19a, 20 & 24

3:  “He who guards his mouth preserves his life, But he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction”

4:  “The soul of the lazy man desires, and has nothing; But the soul of the diligent shall be made rich.”

11:  “Wealth gained by dishonesty will be diminished, But he who gathers by labour will increase”.

16:  “Every prudent man acts with knowledge, but a fool lays open his folly”

18:  “Poverty and shame will come to him who disdains correction, But he who regards a rebuke will be honoured”

20:  “He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will be destroyed.”

But my absolute FAVE is: 19a


19a:  “A desire accomplished is sweet to the soul” – YES!  It sure is! 😀 

14 July 2012:

Proverbs 14: 4, 6, 7, 12, 17, 21, 23, 26, 29, 30, 31 & 33
4:  “Where no oxen are, the trough is clean; But much increase comes by the strength of an ox.”

6:  “A scoffer seeks wisdom and does not find it, But knowledge is easy to him who understands.”

7:  “Go from the presence of a foolish man, When you do not perceive in him the lips of knowledge.”  

17:  “A quick-tempered man acts foolishly, And a man of wicked intentions is hated”

21:  “He who despises his neighbour sins; But he who has mercy on the poor, happy is he”.
26:  “In the fear of the Lord there is strong confidence, And His children will have a place of refuge”

29:  “He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, But he who is impulsive exalts folly”

30:  “A sound heart is life to the body, But envy is rottenness to the bones”.

31:  “He who oppresses the poor reproaches his Maker, But he who honors Him who has mercy on the needy”.

33:  Wisdom rests in the heart of him who has understanding, but what is in the heart of fools is made known”.


My FAVE:

23:  “In all labour there is profit, But idle chatter only leads to poverty”  

… so for those who like to gist and gossip during work hours…..

15 July 2012:

Proverbs 15: 1, 2, 5, 7, 10, 12, 14, 16, 19, 22, 27 & 32

1:  “A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger”

2:  “The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness”

5:  “A fool despises his father’s instruction, But he who receives correction is prudent”.

7:  “The lips of the wise disperse knowledge, But the heart of the fool does not do so”.

8:  “Harsh discipline is for him who forsakes the way, And he who hates correction will die”

12:  “A scoffer does not love one who will correct him, Nor will he go to the wise”

14:  “The heart of him who has understanding seeks knowledge, But the mouth of fools feeds on foolishness”.

16:  “Better is a little with the fear of the Lord, Than great treasure with trouble”

19:  “The way of the lazy man is like a hedge of thorns, But the way of the upright is a highway”

31:   “He who disdains instruction despises his own soul, But he who heeds rebuke gets understanding”.

My FAVE?!   

22:  “Without counsel, plans go awry, But in the multitude of counsellors they are established”

Also remember though that “too many cooks spoils the broth”.  So clearly this has to be done with wisdom.

16 July 2012:

Proverbs 16: 1, 3, 7, 8, 9, 18, 19, 22, 25, 26 & 32.

Quite a lot right?!  Ok you’ll understand why I’m spoilt for choice soon enough…


1:  “The preparations of the heart belong to man, But the answer of the tongue is from the Lord”

3:  “Commit your works to the Lord, And your thoughts will be established”

7:  “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”

8:  “Better a little with righteousness, Than vast revenues without justice”

9:  “A man’s heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps”

18- 19:  

18:  “Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall”.
19:  “Better to be of a humble spirit with the lowly, Than to divide the spoil with the proud.”

22:  “Understanding is a wellspring of life to him who has it.  But the correction of fools is folly”.

25:  “There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death”.

26:  “The person who labours, labours for himself, For his hungry mouth drives him on”.

32:  “He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, And he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city”

See?!  Which one would you have picked huh?!

17 July 2012:

Proverbs 17: 5, 10, 12, 14, 18, 27 – 28.  

This chapter and, in fact the subsequent ones made me burst into laughter at their description of “fools”… whoever they are…  Enjoy the reference verses.  

5:  “He who mocks the poor reproaches his Maker; He who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished”

10:  “Rebuke is more effective for a wise man than a hundred blows on a fool”.

12:  “Let a man meet a bear robbed of her cubs, Rather than a fool in his folly”.

14:  “The beginning of strife is like releasing water; Therefore stop  contention before a quarrel starts”

18:  “A man devoid of understanding shakes hands in a pledge, And becomes surety for his friend”

And my absolute favorites on watching your tongue!  27 – 28:


27:  “He who has knowledge spares his words, And a man of understanding is of a calm spirit”.

28:  “Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace; When he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive”


The question now though is… “Who is a fool?!”  What is the biblical definition of a fool?  Clearly one who is devoid of understanding… I’m thinking…  Or is it someone who has no clue how to hold his tongue?!  Food for thought!

18 July 2012:


Proverbs 18: 6 – 7; 9, 10, 15, 17, 20 & 21

6:  “A fool’s lips enter into contention, And his mouth calls for blows”
7:  “A fool’s mouth is his destruction, And his lips are the snare of his soul”

9:  “He who is slothful in his work Is a brother to him who is a great destroyer”

10:  “The name of the Lord is a strong tower; The righteous run to it and are safe”

15:  “The heart of the prudent acquires knowledge, And the ear of the wise seeks knowledge”

17:  “The first one to plead his cause seems right, Until his neighbor comes and examines him”

My absolute favorites on the power of the tongue:


20:  “A man’s stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth; From the produce of his lips he shall be filled”

21:  “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit”.

Simply confess  it, believe it and it will be yours!  Tried, tested & trusted!  Works every time!

19 July 2012:

Proverbs 19: 5, 11, 15 , 17, 21 & 24

5:  “A false witness will not go unpunished, And he who speaks lies will not escape”

8:  “The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, And his glory is to overlook a transgression”

15:  “Laziness casts one into a deep sleep, And an idle person will suffer hunger”.

17:  “He who has pity on the poor lends to the Lord, And He will pay back what he has given”

21:  “There are many plans in a man’s heart, Nevertheless the Lord’s counsel – that will stand”

My funniest verse in this Chapter:

“A lazy man buries his hand in the bowl, And will not so much as bring it to his mouth again”

Goodness!  Can someone be that lazy?! Lol… (I know I know… it is not meant to be taken literally but still…)

20 July 2012:

Proverbs 20: 3-4, 5, 13, 17, 19, 21, 24 & 27

3:  “It is honorable for a man to stop striving, Since any fool can start a quarrel”
4:  “The lazy man will not plow because of winter; He will beg during harvest and have nothing”

5:  “Counsel in the heart of a man is like deep water, But a man of understanding will draw it out”

13:  “Do not love sleep lest you come to poverty; Open your eyes and you will be satisfied with bread”

17:  “Bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, But afterward his mouth will be filled with gravel”

19:  “He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets; Therefore do not associate with one who flatters with his lips”

21:  “An inheritance gained hastily at the beginning Will not be blessed at the end”.

24:  “A man’s steps are of the Lord; How then can a man understand his own way?”

25:  “The spirit of a man id the lamp of the Lord, Searching all the inner depths of his heart”.

21 July 2012:

Proverbs 21: 3, 4, 17, 23-25

3:  “To do righteousness and justice Is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.”

4:  “A haughty look, a proud heart, And the plowing of the wicked are sin”.

17:  “He who loves pleasure will be a poor man; He who loves wine and oil will not be rich”

23:  “Whoever guards his mouth and tongue Keeps his soul from troubles”.
24:  “A proud and haughty man – ‘Scoffer’ is his name; He acts with arrogant pride”
25:  “The desire of the lazy man kills him, For his hands refuse to labour”

Well at least NOW we know who a scoffer is.  “arrogant pride”… hmmnnn…

BUT!  My absolute FAVE…

5:  “The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, But those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty”.

22 July 2012: 

Proverbs 22:  1, 3, 13, & 15

1:  “A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, Loving favor rather than silver and gold”

3:  “A prudent man foresees evil and hides himself, But the simple pass on and are punished”

13:  “The lazy man says, ‘There is a lion outside!  I shall be slain in the streets!”  – (lol! I’ll hold my peace… Was about to make a funny remark on this one).

15:  “Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child; The rod of correction will drive it far from him”

My absolute FAVE: Verse 29:

29: “Do you see a man who excels in his work?  He will stand before kings; He will not stand before unknown men”.

23 July 2012:

Proverbs 23: 4-5; 9, 12-13, 17, 21, 23 & 29 – 35

I love verse 4:  

“Do not overwork to be rich; Because of your own understanding, cease!”

5:  “Will you set your eyes on that which is not?  For riches certainly make themselves wings; They fly away like an eagle toward heaven”.

9:  “Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, For he will despise the wisdom of your words”.

12:  “Apply your heart to instruction, And your ears to words of knowledge.”
13:  “Do not withhold correction from a child, For if you beat him with a rod, he will not die”

17:  “Do not let your heart envy sinners, But be zealous for the fear of the Lord all the day;”

21:  “For the drunkard and the glutton will come to poverty, And drowsiness will clothe a man with rags.”

23:  “Buy the truth and do not sell it, Also wisdom, and instruction and understanding”

29 – 35 is pretty long but it is a serious warning to those who drink.  It pretty much says stay away from drinking!

24 July 2012:

Proverbs 24:  6, 10, 23, 29 & 30 – 34

6:  “For by wise counsel you will wage your own war, And in a multitude of counsellors there is safety.”

10:  “If you faint in the day of adversity, Your strength is small”.  (Yup!  You have to keep pushing on).

23:  “These things also belong to the wise:  It is not good to show partiality in judgement”

29:  “Do not say: ‘I will do to him just as he has done to me; I will render to the man according to his work'”

30 – 34:  Very key!

30:  “I went by the field of the lazy man, And by the vineyard of the man devoid of understanding;”
31:  “And there it was, all overgrown with thorns; Its surface was covered with nettles; Its stone wall was broken down”
32:  “When I saw it, I considered it well; I looked on it and received instruction:”

33:  “A little sleep, a little slumber, A little folding of the hands to rest;”
34:  “So shall your poverty come like a prowler, And your need like an armed man”.

My absolute FAVE!

25 July 2012:

Proverbs 25: 6-7, 8-10, 11-12, 14, 16, 17, 21-22, 28

On humility:

6: “Do not exalt yourself in the presence of the king, And do not stand in the place of the great;
7:  For it is better that he say to you, ‘Come up here,’ Than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, Whom your eyes have seen”

On patience & wisdom:

8:  “Do not go hastily to court; For what you will do in the end, When your neighbour has put you to shame?
9:   Debate your case with your neighbour, And do not disclose the secret to another;
10: Lest he who hears it expose your shame, And your reputaiton be ruined”

On correction:

11:  “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver,
12:  “Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold Is a wise rebuker to an obedient ear”

On boasting & greed:

14:  “Whoever falsely boasts of giving Is like clouds and wind without rain”

16:  “Have you found honey?  Eat only as much as you need, Lest you be filled with it and vomit”  

On moderation: 

17:  “Seldom set foot in your neighbour’s house, Lest he become weary of you and hate you.”

On giving:

21:  “If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat; And if he is thirsty, give him water to drink;
22:  For so you will heap coals of fire on his head, And the Lord will reward you”

And my favourite: 

28:  “Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls”

26 July 2012:

Proverbs 26: 14-16; 17, 20 & 27

14:  “As a door turns on its hinges, So does the lazy man on his bed.”
15:  “The lazy man buries his hand in the bowl; It wearies him to bring it back to his mouth.”
16:  “The lazy man is wiser in his own eyes Than seven men who can answer sensibly.”

17:  “He who passes by and meddles in a quarrel not his own Is like one who takes a dog by the ears.”

20:  “Where there is no wood, the fire goes out; And where there is no talebearer, strife ceases.”

27:  “Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, And he who rolls a stone will have it roll back on him.”

27 July 2012:

Proverbs 27: 1, 2, 5, 14, 17, 18, 19, 21, 23-27

1:  “Do not boast about tomorrow, For you do not know what a day may bring forth”

2:  “Let another man praise you, and not your own mouth; A stranger, and not your own lips”

5:  “Open rebuke is better Than love carefully concealed”

14:  “He who blesses his friend with a loud voice, rising early in the morning, It will be counted a curse to him”. (Lol… this is pretty funny!  All them people screaming “k’aro o ji’re” at like 5am in the morning – take note!)

17:  “As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend”

18:  “Whoever keeps the fig tree will eat its fruit; So he who waits on his master will be honoured”.

19:  “As in water face reflects face, So a man’s heart reveals the man”

21:  “The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, And a man is valued by what others say of him”

23:  “Be diligent to know the state of your flocks, And attend to your herds;
24:  “For riches are not forever, Nor does a crown endure to all generations.
25:  “When the hay is removed, and the tender grass shows itself, And the herbs of the mountains are gathered in,
26:  “The lambs will provide your clothing, And the goats the price of a field;
27:  “You shall have enough goats’ milk for your food, For the food of your household, And the nourishment of your maidservants”

28 July 2012:

Proverbs 28: 9, 13, 19, 21, 23

9:  “One who turns his ear away from hearing the law, Even his prayer is an abomination”

13:  “He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy”

21:  “To show partiality is not good, Because for a piece of bread a man will transgress”.

23:  “He who rebukes a man will find more favour afterward Than he who flatters with the tongue” (Yes but please this does not mean you go around just “rebuking” anyone anyhow).

And my fave!  Verse 19:

19:  “He who tills his land will have plenty of bread, But h who follows frivolity will have poverty enough!
29 July 2012:

Proverbs 29: 11, 15, 17 & 20

First!  A Happy Birthday to my sister!!!  Wishing her lots of fun today and always… and of course lots of God’s guidance, blessings, wisdom and understanding always!

And then Proverbs…


15:  “The rod and rebuke give wisdom, But a child left to himself brings shame to his mother”

17:  “Correct your son and he will give you rest; Yes, he will give delight to your soul”.

20:  “Do you see a man hasty in his words?  There is more hope for a fool than for him” [:-(]

And my fave and perhaps most controversial at the same time:


11:  “A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back” 

Ok!  So does this mean we have no right to express ourselves?!  No!  I think it is more a case of being slow to anger.  But how about if not expressing yourself just really eats you up inside and the only way to let go is simply by venting all?!  I know that is how I am able to cope with all the challenges around here, else bottling it all up means 1.  You never get your work delivered by your vendors and 2.  You  just end up stressing and hurting yourself with all that pent up emotions.  But then that’s just me!  The Bible obviously holds more weight.

30 July 2012:

Proverbs 30: 5-6, 7-9; 15-16 & 24-28

5:  “Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him
6:  “Do not add to His words, Lest He rebuke you, and you be found a liar”

15a:  “The leech has two daughters, Give and Give!” (Lol!  Nice one!) 
15b:  “There are three things that are never satisfied, Four never say, “Enough”:
16:  “The grave, The barren womb, The earth that is not satisfied with water – And the fire never says, ‘Enough’!”

24:  “There are four things which are little on the earth, But they are exceedingly wise:
25:  “The ants are a people not strong, Yet they prepare their food in the summer;
26:  “The rock badgers are a feeble folk, Yet they make their homes in the crags;
27:  “The locusts have no king, Yet they advance in ranks;
28:  “The spider skillfully grasps with its hands, And it is in kings’ palaces”.

And my absolute favourite which doubles as a prayer:  Verses 7-9:

7:  “Two things I request of You (Deprive me not before I die):
8:  “Remove falsehood and lies far from me; Give me neither poverty nor riches – Feed me with the food allotted to me;
9:  “Lest I be full and deny You, And say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ Or lest I be poor and steal, And profane the name of my God”

31 July 2012:

Proverbs 31: 3-5, 9, 10, 25, 28 & 30-31

3:  “Do not give your strength to women, Nor your ways to that which destroys kings
4:  “It is not for kings, O Lemuel, It is not for kings to drink wine, Nor for princes intoxicating drink;
5:  “Lest they drink and forget the law, And pervert the justice of all the afflicted.”

9:  “Open your mouth, judge righteously, And plead the cause of the poor and the needy”

And for the women in our lives:

10:  “Who can find a virtuous wife?  For her worth is far above rubies”.
25:  “Strength and honour are her clothing; She shall rejoice in time to come”
28:  “Her children rise and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her:”

And of course my fave… Verses 30 – 31:

30:  “Charm and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.
31:  “Give her the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates”.

Excellent!  And that’s a wrap folks!  THE perfect wrap to an excellent month and an excellent Book.  It was a long one but I definitely learnt a lot, even more so now than the first time I read it.

Hope you all had a great month!  Here’s wishing you a very pleasant month of August and the very best for the rest of the year!

Cheers!